You make a good point… You opened another door for dialogue. And yes… absolutely.

People can be both like I said. And talking about our motivation based on what stage we're at in life, sure plays a role.

I remember growing up, based on my upbringing and introversion, I just wanted to have a good job so I can take care of my family someday.

But growing up through high school and going through everything I've been through, altered my desires and I found new motivation to switch into seeking a life story.

Now, I want a love story and am opened to it, while actively pursuing a life story.

So yeah… you're right about that. Circumstances and growing through life can alter these desires and priorities. And we certainly can be seekers of both.