You get it correctly.
It isn’t about being a doormat.

Some people believe if you have a gift of avoiding conflict, that you’re a doormat. But It isn’t true.

That’s why I call it a gift. Because a lot of people lack it.
But the truth is, it’s wisdom.
Been able to have conversation with your partner in a respectful manner. Watching what you say to avoid injuring your partner with your words.

I think it goes a long way to keep peace in the home.
Thank you very much. Your comment really touched me.