This is like housing people in your head and trying not to offend them.
You basically stop living for yourself. And when you do, it’s hard to know yourself.
I find it annoying and depressing, having to deal with it.
But it’s been a battle I’m winning daily.
Sometimes when you gain some victory, you can sense the sweet aroma of freedom if truly you get those people-pleasing spirit out of your head.
Absolute freedom of the mind and peace is the goal.