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Old vs. Modern Love
Understanding the shift
Relationships have turned high risk.
Riskier than starting a business, it’d seem. The psychological and financial implications of failed relationships or marriages are telling on society. Not to mention the mental strain on the kids involved.
Relationships have changed, quietly but deeply. The differences might not shout, but they show.
The question is, how so?
In the past, commitment was central. Marriage was often the goal. Love grew slowly. People stayed through thick and thin.
Duty played a big role. Monetary incentive? Or dogged commitment? Perhaps both. Life’s never been a one-size-fit-all after all.
Today, freedom matters more. Women can earn. Men can parent.
New motto: Love is a choice.
People value independence, and relationships must fit into personal dreams. And they can end quickly if the spark fades.
Communication has also shifted. Before, it was face-to-face or letters that took days. Words carried weight. Now, it’s texts, emojis, and constant updates. Fast, but sometimes shallow.
Our connectedness creates private and easy access to the other people, creating an economy of options. We can, (consciously…
