I turned 30 last May 2020.. and everything you highlighted here i can relate with. It was the same way i felt. i won't lie though, turning 30 laid bare before my eyes my lack of satisfactory results. i know sometimes i can be too hard on myself, but i feel sometimes, some self-evaluation is necessary.

Nevertheless, it is one thing to know intellectually, its not another to actually live it out.

issue of marriage, is another problem on its own, compounded by family back home.

most times, i feel families fail to realise that we live in different times now.

Anyway, i feel you Ibukun. Great piece here. nice job!!! better days ahead!!