I actually did write it because of your article I read.

I know as grown and self aware adults, we look at our past to learn from them.

But sometimes, certain things we do that seem like a mistakes, are not mistakes. The only mistake there is, is that we did it for the wrong person.

When I read your piece about the lessons from your past situationships, it really hurt me because they are things I also did back then.

But I’ve learned that, for someone who isn’t right for us, everything we do is always a mistake. They don’t want us loving them too much or showing love too much. I just feel it isn’t fair. Because there are people out there who desires the kind of love we give.

Anyway—thank you Rainna! Keep being strong.